Saturday, May 13, 2017
Love you Mom
Every year in mid-May, I would stand in front of the racks of Mother's Day cards, pulling out one card and then another, none appearing to be a good fit. My mom was a different kind of mom -- even more so than I could realize at the time. I just wanted a card to say, "I love you, mom."
Last week, I stood in the store, buying a card for my precious mother-in-law as well as our two oldest daughters who are both now incredible moms-of-four.
As we checked out, my husband looked at me and said, "What's the matter? Did we need anything else?"
"I wanted to get a card for my mom too," I replied. He nodded and gave me a hug. "I can understand that," he said. She has been gone for twelve long years in the redeeming place on the other side of life. I rejoice because someday, I will see her again. I do not grieve as one who has no hope (1 Thessalonians 4. 13), but I still miss her.
What I wouldn't give to have a cup of coffee with her, to catch up, to listen a little deeper than I ever did before.
What I wouldn't give to be able get her a card for Mother's Day to let her know how much I love her, how much I still love her, how much I always will.
The ten commandments really boil down to only two: love God and love people. The first five commandments address our relationship with God. The second five are headlined by our relationship with our parents.
Honor your father and your mother,
that your days may be long in the land
which the LORD your God gives you.
Exodus 20. 12
What if we really took God up on that promise?
Because how I treat my mom
sets the pace.
How I speak of her even now that she is gone,
those indelible marks of grace and forgiveness
impact everyone around me
and even the children yet unborn.
Honoring one's mom
has nothing to do
with her performance as a mom,
My relationship with my mom
is Exhibit #1 of God's redeeming.
It is what love looks like
in ordinary ways
on the most ordinary days.
Mother's Day is designed not to remind your mom
that you love her,
but to remind you.
The rest of the year is designed
to show her how much.
And even deeper than a mother's love is this:
the LORD loves you even more.
Can a woman forget her nursing child,
that she should have no compassion
on the son of her womb?
Even these may forget,
yet I will not forget you.
Behold, I have graven you
on the palms of my hands...
Isaiah 49. 15-16
We may not all be moms,
but we all have one.
If yours is still available,
call her for me.
Make her day.